When You’re Ready to Face it All – I’m Here.

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Let me say this upfront — I’m not for everyone.

Working with me isn’t a chat on the couch or surface-level advice to “stay positive” and practice mindfulness. It’s not about weekly bandaids. It’s not about fixing you, because I don’t see you as broken. It’s about excavating.

Yes — excavating.

When people come to me, they’ve often already been down the pathway of psychologists or other practitioners who are quick to label or diagnose, making you feel like you’re defined by a set of conditions instead of seen as a whole person. Or they’ve tried cognitive work, focusing only on “strategies” or “tools” without ever digging deeper. Or worse, they’ve worked with others in my field who avoid the deep, often uncomfortable, family systems work — the kind that taps into the unconscious patterns of your lineage. Patterns that have been running beneath the surface for generations. This level of work is rarely offered — not because therapists don’t care, but because it asks us to go into places we’ve had to confront ourselves first. Many practitioners aren’t trained or supported to work at the depth of the unconscious family system — and without that grounding, they simply can’t take others there.

And that’s where I come in.

In my work, we don’t stay on the surface. We drop into the root system — to the place where your patterns were formed, where the beliefs took hold, where your nervous system learned who was safe and who wasn’t. I hold a space that is deep, anchored, and unapologetically honest. I don’t work with pretence. I don’t collude with your mask. And I certainly won’t let you bypass what your soul came here to heal.

Some say I’m a truth teller. Others say I’m a mirror. I’m probably both.

I see what you’ve buried.
And if you’re ready, I’ll help you bring it into the light.

I follow a framework, yes — but more than that, I follow you. Your body. Your stories. Your silences. Transformation doesn’t come from rigid steps — it comes from attuning to what is ready to emerge. I work systemically, emotionally, and energetically. And I’m not afraid of the dark. I honour it. Because the gold is always found in the shadow. 

No one works quite like I do.
It’s not arrogance — it’s clarity.
I’ve walked through fire in my own life, and I bring that lived wisdom into every session.

But here’s the thing: you’ve got to be ready.

Ready to be honest.
Ready to meet the parts of you you’ve hidden, rejected, or denied.
Ready to move from survival to sovereignty.

If you’re still looking to be rescued, I might not be the right therapist for you.
But if you’re ready to reclaim yourself — raw, real, and powerful — I’m here.

Not to lead you.
But to walk beside you.
To witness.
To call forth the truth.
And to remind you that you’ve always had the medicine inside.

You’ll know when it’s time, and I’ll be here.