Traits of an authentic woman


The 8 character traits of a truly authentic woman

Being genuine should never be something you have to learn about. You just are. It’s the rare trait of a woman who is unapologetic for her uniqueness and lives her life according to her own barometer and not by the rules and expectations of others. She exudes power and confidence, is a joy to be around and feels really authentic. She makes you feel really warm and safe when you are by her side. Admired my many and a challenge for some, she pulls many people towards her. 

 So, what’s her secret?


She earns attention, rather than chasing it down. This kind of woman walks into a room and owns all parts of herself. She truly listens and is fully engaged when interacting with others and accepts that she may not be everybody’s cup of tea or for the faint hearted and that’s ok. She’s comfortable in her body with all of its flaws and imperfections.  She values her uniqueness and admires this in others too. She’s not afraid to show her vulnerability and she oozes compassion and empathy.


She brings all of her mind, body and soul into the present time and connects fully with her breath.  To be embodied, she lives her highest potential and delights in the rewards of being the most loving, on purpose, wise and powerful woman she can be. It is her natural way of being. She is deeply in flow and understands how we are all connected. By consciously activating her life force she releases old cellular memories, blocks and heaviness. She accesses the endless supply of yin energy through herself, the earth and from being with other embodied women. 


She treats all beings in her life and the Higher Order with dignity.  Right or wrong, good or bad don’t play a role in her consciousness.  Alignment of values are extremely important to her, so she can quite happily let things go and continue walking her own path. She takes full responsibility for her life and her actions and becomes empowered.  Remaining stuck, blaming or avoiding gives her health issues and her true nature is to be in flow. 

She has faced her biggest fears and demons and experienced extreme stress or trauma and digs deep to find her hidden resources and creative potential.


She visits her feelings often and checks in with the why and how they are presenting for her. She has no fears in delving deep and asking herself or those closest, the tough questions of what she needs to draw in or let go for her current path. She is comfortable with saying Yes and very comfortable in saying No. Her analytical mind searches and discovers the parts which need fine tuning, sorted and shifted. 

She leaves no stone unturned to tap into her unlimited potential through the process of self-development. The power of her thoughts reflects the interesting and colourful life she manifests with ease. The journey of self-discovery and spiritual awakening become a way of life for her. 


This woman wields her sword and has the power to discriminate, cut away any illusions, darkness, negativity, ignorance or expectations which keeps her small, limited and voiceless.  Ruthless compassion is required to use her sword which she delivers when necessary for the highest good of all. This strengthens her soul’s power, purpose and abilities. Each time she needs to use it to set boundaries, she grows and connects deeper to divine power.  Her sword protects her, especially when she forgets why she is here or as tolerated too much suffering.  She only needs to use it when she’s learning what she requires for her growth. Often, it’s not appreciated when on the receiving end and change can come swiftly. 

Her sword leads her and others into greatness, through the darkness of the soul. Only through her deepest surrender of the ego can she discover her light.  


Her inner world runs deep for her. Her worthiness is a major monitor of her success.  She trusts herself enough to do what’s best and knows who or what she needs to walk away from when her worth is compromised.  She’s fully in control of her life and really gets that the sooner she lets go of old unhealthy beliefs and forms new ones, she creates more positivity and success. She’s aware that If she continues to do what she has always done in a certain area of her life than she cannot expect to reap the rewards.  She reminds herself at the root of every success or failure she has ever had lies her self-esteem.  It is a continual driver for her to live a deeply full and satisfying life.


She believes in destiny and the importance for complete surrender of how her life is unfolding. Resistance is futile.  She no longer desperately holds on to structures in her life which do not sustain her spirit. Timing can be interesting and sometimes new creative projects or the ideal relationship can take time to transpire and form. She’s patient. 

There are some off days and she doesn’t beat herself up for it.  Dealing with the full spectrum of feminine emotions doesn’t frighten her, besides it’s just part of being a woman and she knows that all emotions if expressed fully, will pass. 

She deeply honours her Mother and Father as without them she wouldn’t be here and accepts her rightful place in her family of origin. 

She lives without entanglements.


When she taps into her courage, she gets tested.  By stepping into her greatness, she pushes through personal, family and cultural boundaries and creates something unique, beautiful and successful.  Standing out from the crowd isn’t always easy for her as she forges ahead, away from a mediocre life. When she gets knocked down, she gets up and rises with more determination.  Obstacles become her challenge and not her enemy. To stay integral, she chooses courage over comfort.   

She willingly goes into battle for those she loves and never backs down. She is the Warrioress with a soft heart. To open her heart fully, she learns to open up her body and activate it to feel less restrained and enjoy unlimited sex.