It can take a long time to find out who you actually are. Not who you were taught to be. Not who your family needed you to be. […]
What We Bring Into Our Relationships
People rarely marry only a person. They also meet that person’s family system. Their loyalties. Their losses. Their exclusions. Their unfinished attachments. The things that were spoken about […]
When the Deeper Pattern is Seen
Last weekend I ran a workshop in Brisbane, and some of the shifts in the room were profound. This is what I love about Family Constellation work. People […]
Deep Work Requires Readiness
Since 2007, I have worked across more than 16,000 client sessions, and one thing has become impossible for me to ignore: what brings someone into therapy is rarely […]
A Deep Dive Into What’s Really Going On.
Working with me is not about sitting in a room talking about the same problem week after week. It is a deep dive into what is really going […]
Beyond Logic: Why Modern Psychotherapy Creates Lasting Change
Have you ever found yourself thinking, “I know exactly why I do this, so why can’t I stop?” It can be incredibly frustrating. You understand your patterns, you’ve connected […]
The Hidden Family Dynamics Affecting Your Relationship
Have you ever stopped to wonder why the same issues keep appearing in your relationships? Whether you’ve been together for six months or thirty years, or you’ve found […]
The Overpathologising of Women
Somewhere along the way, we’ve convinced women that if they’re struggling, they’ve somehow failed. Failed to cope. Failed to regulate their emotions. Failed to heal. Failed to be […]
What a 90-Year-Old Door Handle Taught Me About People
Well it’s hard to believe we are half way through 2026. How is your year been for you? What’s shifted for the better, what needs more work and […]
The Life We Think We Want
Most of us spend our lives chasing the life we think we want. We are taught what success should look like. The right job. The right relationship. The […]